As humans we are gregarious by nature
And yet it is amazingly difficult to keep our relationships longstanding
Withstanding
Or just standing in most cases
Relationship – The state of being connected
But how does one stay connected
Or disconnect
Or reconnect
Or what even connects two people
Friendship love affection faith trust
All emotions
And emotions are transitory transient
Felt so differently by the two people even in the same situation
That they are hardly ever transparent
Not just to the world
To the other person
But to I me myself
And because of the way one sees the ‘I me myself’
I – The ego
Self
Identity
The ego… about oneself
About the view of oneself
About the separation of one from the rest
And how can a relationship exist, truly..
when there is this separation
If emotion is based on this self and on that separation
Then relationship
That connection
That friendship
That faith
Changing based on the self
Looking different based on the self
Perceiving differently based on the self
Is nothing but a manifestation of that self in an equation with others
And if perception changes constantly
So does the self, the I
And so does the view of that manifestation
Humans are gregarious by nature
Not cause they need to coexist
But that’s how the self can view and review itself
Can reflect
Can connect..
To itself
And to the universe.
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